As I am sure is the case with many other parents, I have tried various systems and charts and lists to get my kids to do chores, and do them consistently, especially in the summer. This spring I started brainstorming about how I was going to have a successful summer with the children and I came up with this idea.
Up to this point, my most successful "job chart" was when I made a list on a piece of paper and the kids would read what they had to do and write their initial next to the job when it was finished. There are several flaws in this system, though. What if there is a job that I only need/want one child to do? What if I forget to write a list the night before and the children get up before me? I would often tell them to "pick two from this list" but the faster ones would pick the easier/shorter jobs. I don't want to write out a different list for each child, but I need to be able to have customizable lists without all the work.
And the magnetic job chart was born. I went to Home Depot and got a piece of sheet metal that measures 1x2 ft. I had just planned to hang it on the wall but Frugaldad hopped on the job chart train with me and cut me a piece of 1/4" plywood for the back and we glued them together with polyurethane glue. I went to Staples and bought some magnetic paper. It is designed to run through an ink-jet printer, but I wanted to hand-write the jobs so that as I added more, they all matched. I used a paper trimmer to cut the magnetic paper into 1/2" strips, then I used fine-tipped permanent markers in different colors to write the jobs on the strips, and I just cut them apart with scissors. I wrote down every possible job I might ask the kids to do and wrote them on a piece of paper. Then I coded them according to the type of job. Some jobs, like feeding our various animals, rotate weekly. Some things are done daily. Some things are done whenever I feel like asking the kids to do them. My coding system isn't perfect, but it works. I wrote each type of job in a different color.
I wanted to make it cute, but by the time I got everything assembled and written, etc, it was the last day of school. I knew that I had to start the very first day of vacation to get all the kids on board with my system. So I wrote each child's initials with a washable maker and called it good.
When a child finishes a job, they move it from the left side to the right side of the board.
After a month, I finally had a spare minute to make the board prettier. I bought a roll of faux leather Contact Paper and some scrapbooking stickers and covered the board.
I am happy to report that after over a month of summer vacation, we are still using this job chart with great success. I have a job magnet called "mom job" that is a job that they have to come ask me about, so I don't have to make magnets for special one-time things, like "unpack your backpack from the camping trip." When a job goes unfinished that I need done (like the dishwasher needs emptied and I'm ready to load dirty dishes,) I am able to remove that job from the offending child's section and replace it with a different (usually harder) job. This child, in particular, doesn't care too much about getting her turn on the computer or picking a television show, so I often empty the dishwasher for her and assign her something else. And then I leave the unfinished jobs for the next day, as well.
Cost for this project:
sheet metal: $7
plywood: free (scrap from the kitchen project)
contact paper: $7 plus almost a whole roll left
magnetic paper: $10 for 4 sheets. I have more than 3 sheets left
kids who do jobs: priceless
(I modified the system just a bit when school started. Check it out here.)
Comments
perfect
This is a really good idea, Monique. I like how you can move the magnets and you did a great job of thinking of all kinds of things that need to be done to keep a house clean and functioning.
So what is the consequence when a child refuses to do a chore? (like my 8 year old who is insisting she'll just stay in her room forever instead of clean it?)
consequences
They have to finish all their jobs to get a turn on the computer or to watch television. Since they will all want to watch tv if it is on, they basically all have to be done with jobs for it to be on, so it hasn't been playing much this summer. If there is a big event coming up, I make them all complete all the jobs to be able to go; like since we had the tie-dye party today, I told them on Tuesday that they all had to get all their jobs done on Wednesday for us to get to go. The stragglers almost always pull through for the good of the group. I will often help when a job is overwhelming, especially for the younger ones. To get a very messy room or playroom cleaned up, they need direction and company. For my oldest son, he ends up getting to do fun outings with his cousins more often than his sisters so that is good incentive for him. The biggest consequence to not doing chores in a timely manner is the list just gets longer and longer. When it comes to feeding animals, I sometimes have to force them to do it, but they are doing pretty well so far.
love it
What creativity, functionality and total frugality - YOU are one ROCKIN' MAMA!
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